Monday, November 22, 2010

Are you a societal slave?

Unfortunately the social norms of the society in which we exist today
are quite bland I believe. There are so many people unhappy due to
these norms because they are stuck (or at least believe they are
stuck) in lifestyles they are not content with that lead to
depression, anxiety, obesity, cardiovascular disease, and all and all
an unhappy regretful life. Don't get me wrong, not everyone is unhappy
with these norms, but the majority they are whether they know it or
not.

When I graduated high school I had no idea where I wanted to go to
college or for what. What I really wanted to do was travel the world,
write poems, make art, explore cultures, and meet people of different
beliefs. This idea was completely out of societal norms, I was told if
I did this I would never go to college, I would never do anything
important with my life, my life would be a waste. So I went to
boarding school for a year to try and figure out where I wanted to go
to college and for what. After that year I still had no idea but I
came to college anyways because that was the acceptable social norm.
So here I am today, a senior in the health science major, my dad
having spent about $200,000 in education, and I still have no idea
what I want to do! I do know I want to write poems, travel the world,
meet new people, explore the mountains, learn about different
religions, make art, philosophy about life with strangers. Here I am
four years later with the same dreams I had five years ago and I am
finally on the brink of exploring them, almost free from this "college
norm." What did I get from it all, that's what I look too. I got a lot
of professors lecturing to me off a power point I had already read
through, a lot of expensive text books telling me things I already
knew or could have found out through self and world exploration. I GOT
A DEGREE! One I will never use, but people don't like to talk about
that.

I must say I go against societal norms a lot. I don't own a
television, I don't vote, and I am not afraid to express what I
believe. I will transcend the norm like the beat generation did, like
the Dharma Bums. I don't need politics and all their money and glory.
I don't need celebrities, or diamonds that people loose arms for. In
May I am getting out of here, cross country road tripping in search
for what I don't know, art, music, poetry, life, birds, trees,
silence, noise. I am looking for it all in a search for self,
something college couldn't give me. Something the college format essay
writing standards never gave me with all its bland simplicity. So here
my assignment is, whether it fills the fulfillment or just clear cuts
the norms take from it what you will.

Thank you college for letting me finally grasp the realization I had
years ago, that our society it plagued and I will not fall sick. I
will transcend the societal norms and do it with glory ignoring
judgments passed by those stuck in their bore. Set free at last and
okay with what I want and not what society wants of me. I will not be
another societal slave!

1 comment:

  1. Keep in mind that even if you don't have a degree, it really says a lot about you that you were able to stick with it and finish what you started. An awesome personality trait if you ask me, because this world has enough people who just quit and give up on things. People will see that, even if you aren't sure what you're going to use it for.

    A degree is, in my opinion, the ultimate test of being able to finish what you start. As bland as it is (and believe me, I'm completely over my college degree at this point, and never want anything to do with Environmental Science after spending four years around all the crazies related to it) I'm glad I have it.

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